Overcoming Disappointment
Disappointment is one of the most insidious and painful trials believers face. When someone experiences hardship and sees no way out, their soul risks sinking into despair. Often, disappointment arises when our expectations go unmet, and it seems as though God isn’t responding to our prayers. Yet the Bible clearly instructs us on how to overcome this condition.
In Psalm 66:13-14, David says, “I will come into your house with burnt offerings; I will perform my vows to you, that which my lips uttered and my mouth promised when I was in trouble.” Here, an important principle is revealed: during times of trouble, we must continue to praise God with our mouths and tongues. This is the primary and essential purpose for which God gave us speech—to turn to Him and exalt His name.
David experienced numerous hardships and trials. Looking closely at his life, we see he endured many attacks and struggles, even from those closest to him. Nevertheless, David did not allow disappointment to take hold of his heart. He understood that during trials, it is crucial to continue praising God rather than succumbing to despair. He consciously chose not to harbor sin in his heart, knowing that the Lord hears the prayers of the righteous.
The Apostle Paul reinforces this truth, stating: “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). Paul himself was no stranger to suffering and adversity; rather, he regularly faced hardship, persecution, and even life-threatening dangers. Yet he refused to yield to disappointment, confident that for those who love God and are called according to His purpose, all things work together for good.
Allowing disappointment into one’s heart can open doors to devastating consequences. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). When we begin to complain, speak negatively, or criticize others and ourselves, we make room for the enemy of our souls. Instead, we must learn to control our words, channeling our speech toward praise and worship of the Lord.
Disappointment often arises from misguided expectations. People who depend solely on their own strength or rely excessively on others inevitably face disappointment because humans are limited and imperfect. The true source of our blessings and hope is God alone. He alone is unchanging, faithful, and omnipotent.
Whenever you encounter trials, remember Paul’s words: “Since we have the same spirit of faith according to what has been written, ‘I believed, and so I spoke,’ we also believe, and so we also speak” (2 Corinthians 4:13). Faith empowers us not just to endure trials but to overcome them. Troubles are temporary, but faith is eternal. Amid hardship, do not allow yourself to become a living embodiment of grief; instead, be a person of faith, trust, and praise.
Scripture emphasizes the importance of harmony between the heart and the mouth. David explains that if he had cherished sin in his heart, the Lord would not have listened. It is crucial that our feelings align with our spoken words. Only then can victory truly come.
Remember, God did not create us for sorrow and despair but for joy and blessing. Even when circumstances seem contrary, your purpose remains—to glorify God and uphold His truth. Disappointment arises when we forget our purpose and allow circumstances to dictate our reality.
Finally, the Apostle Paul reminds us of a vital truth: “But thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession” (2 Corinthians 2:14). God does not promise a life without trials, but He promises to always be with us, granting strength and the ability to overcome any disappointment. Your trials are temporary, but God’s Word endures forever. Thus, overcome disappointment through gratitude, praise, and faith, knowing the Lord is always near to those who trust in Him.
Pastor Oren Lev Ari